| Managing and Treating Separation Anxiety |
What is Separation Anxiety?
Behaviors that occur when a dog is suffering from separation anxiety:
Some physiological signs include:
Why does it develop?It usually develops when a dog never has the opportunity to practice being alone, especially when growing up as a puppy. It is a major reason why dogs end up in shelter (Beagles howl loudly - if they have separation anxiety, the owners get eviction notices). It can also develop if a dog is left alone for too long, too often. Don't confuse Separation Anxiety for BoredomA dog that chews your shoes when you're gone may just be bored and wanted to chew your shoe. Similarly, a dog that soils in the house when left alone may just not be housebroken - or you left them at home for longer than their bladder could handle. Look for sweaty paw prints, drool puddles, glazed eyes, etc. as signs that it is separation anxiety and not a general training issue. Recording your dog with a camera when you're gone is a good way to tell. Managing Separation AnxietyCuring separation anxiety, after its developed, may take months or years. So you'll need management strategies while you implement treatment strategies. Here are a few:
Treating Separation Anxiety
What is a Planned Departure?A planned departure is leaving your home for a set amount of time strictly for the purposes of desensitizing your dog to being left alone. If you pack up and leave, you may find your dog is silent for 1 minute at first, then the barking or urination starts at 1:01. If that's his threshold, you leave for 55 seconds, and then return. Repeat at 56 seconds, then 57, and slowly move your way up. In half an hour of training, you should be able to leave 20 times and each time ideally your dog remains calm enough not to howl or chew something. Over days and weeks you'll move from increments of seconds to minutes - over time your dog will be able to tolerate being alone and loose for longer and longer periods. Once you get up to about the 10 minute mark, it's easy to integrate this practice to your daily life - 10 minutes is enough time to go to the corner store to pick up milk, or walk to the video store to return a movie, go to the bank ATM, etc. The more reasons to leave and come back the better. After weeks and months of work, you'll break the 60 minute mark - at that point you'll be able to leave your dog alone to go to the gym, eat at a neighbourhood restaurant, etc. By that time your dog should be OK to be alone for 3+ hours at a time. Just make sure the dog is well exercised, has been opportunities to relieve himself, and you've left lots of chew toys and stuffed kongs (and hidden your prized pair of shoes or other at risk objects) to set your dog up for success. Here's a video of a beagle that suffers from Separation Anxiety. Notice that the dog ignores food that is left behind - he is too stressed to eat - a sign that he's really upset (beagles are notoriously food hungry).
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